Sis… Don’t Be a Sonya. Your Energy Creates Your Reality 💔✨
- Nylah
- Jun 19
- 3 min read
Hey Love,
Let me tell you a little something I’ve been reflecting on lately — and it starts with none other than Sonya, Nesto’s infamous side chick turned spectacle.
Now listen… Sonya didn’t wake up one day and say “I wanna be the butt of the joke.” But baby, she became the punchline anyway — energetically, spiritually, and emotionally. And here’s why...
She’s in her 50s. No real solid love stories. And if you look close enough, a pattern starts to emerge — she’s always chasing men who belonged to other women. Always seeking “the good life” through the side door of someone else’s house.
That ain’t luxury, sis — that’s lack.
That’s scarcity.
That’s desperation wearing designer.
Because when you believe deep down that you can’t be chosen, that you’re not enough, or that you can’t manifest your OWN — you start borrowing, begging, and pretending. And Sonya? She thought she was manifesting wealth and love, but really… she was just magnetizing chaos.
She scammed, she schemed, she tried to buy affluence with cars she couldn't afford and a Temu Ponytail , but none of it stuck.
Why?
Because her actions were born out of low-vibe energy. And baby, the Universe is ALWAYS listening.
She thought she was winning by being the last one standing... but she stood in a puddle of her own self-created disappointment. That ain’t a prize — that’s a punishment.
She thought she was going to win popularity and influence on social media — flashing knock off bags, whispering in jail phones, and throwing shade in the name of “being chosen.” But baby… the internet didn’t crown her, it clowned her.
Because the energy behind it was off.
She wasn’t moving from purpose, peace, or power. She was moving from pain, from insecurity, from needing validation so badly it leaked out of every filtered selfie. And because the energy was low, the return was lower.
That’s the thing about manifestation: it don’t lie.You don’t attract what you pretend to be.You attract what you actually believe.And deep down, Sonya didn’t believe she was worthy — she believed she had to take, fake, and force her way into love and legacy.
But you? You know better.And that means you can do better.
Her life is a manifestation — not because she made a vision board, but because she poured energy into the wrong things, and life gave her more of that. It's tragic… but it’s true.
Now the real question is…
What are YOU manifesting?
Let’s be real — every action you take has a vibe behind it. And if that vibe is bitterness, jealousy, proving your worth, or just trying to “have what she got”? Whew... that’s Sonya energy, baby. And we don’t do that over here.
We’re curating lives that come from alignment. From worthiness. From self-love.
Not struggle, not chasing, not crumbs.
✨ You are the energy you keep. So check it, protect it, and direct it. ✨ AMEN!
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👑 Rich Girl Club Update:
Last night’s meeting was absolutely magical and the playback is now available in your private portal. Y’all showed up, shared breakthroughs, and reminded each other what divine sisterhood really looks like. We meet again tonight at 6PM EST, so get your wine and your journal ready — we’re going deeper.
📺 And yes — LIVE content is coming for EVERYONE today.
Because no matter where you’re at in your glow-up journey, I want you to be inspired, informed, and in your bag.
Let’s stay intentional. Let’s stay beautiful.
And above all — let’s not be Sonya.
With love & high frequency,
Nylah
Unfortunately because of social media. We can no longer completely shun people like her from society. Ever since 2016 Social Media has rewarded degenerate, soulless, vessels, like Sonya.
What days and times are our meetings?